Memory Do you remember that golden childhood spent with your siblings, where someone else made mistakes and someone else got scolded. We used to eat our own share of chocolates, but we also stole our sister’s chocolates stored in the refrigerator. When my sister asked for a glass of water, the response was, “Why don’t you go get it yourself.” But when it came to saving us from our father’s scolding, it was always my sister who saved us.
Only a brother and sister can have such a unique relationship, where it seems difficult to live with each other, but you also cannot live without each other. In reality, this relationship does not depend on any particular day. But just like a special day was chosen for other relationships, Rakshabandhan is also celebrated for siblings. There is also another day, which is made for this relationship: Bhai Dooj.
Bhai Dooj is a festival that promotes love and affection between brother and sister. It is also called Bhaubij, Bhaiya Dooj or Bhai Tika. It is a time when brothers and sisters come together to celebrate their love, respect and devotion to each other.
The sisters apply tilak on the foreheads of their brothers and pray for their well-being. In return, the brothers bless their sisters and promise to protect them throughout their lives.
Tomorrow is Bhai Dooj and on this occasion we will talk about brother-sister love in the relationship section. We will also learn how siblings can revive their childhood memories and deepen their relationship.
Brother-sister relationship is bittersweet
The relationship between brother and sister is full of bitter and sweet arguments. This relationship begins in childhood and lasts throughout life. This relationship includes love, affection, jokes, quarrels and support. No matter how much brother and sister tease each other, if anyone else thinks about doing it, they fight. In reality, the brother-sister relationship is quite unique.
There is no better friend than a brother or sister
From childhood to adulthood, brothers and sisters share their joys and sorrows together. In their childhood, those who had become enemies of each other because of their disobedience, as they grow up, sometimes become partners in crime and sometimes friends.
Protecting herself from her father’s scolding, hiding something from her mother, eating ice cream together in secret in the evening, and waiting as a guard at the door when he comes home late. Only brothers and sisters can do all this for each other.
The story also testifies to the indissoluble bond which united brother and sister.
Relationship between Subhadra and Krishna
Lord Krishna and Balram’s sister Subhadra have a special mention in Hindu mythology. Krishna was protective towards Subhadra. Krishna opposed the family and helped Subhadra in her marriage with Arjun. This story of Krishna and Subhadra shows how far a brother can go to protect his sister and ensure her happiness.
Relationship between Yamuna and Yamraj
There is a unique relationship between Yamraj and Yamuna. According to mythology, on this day, Yamraj comes to meet his sister Yamuna and she prays for his well-being. Their story symbolizes the protective aspect of brother-sister relationships.
Ram and Shanta’s relationship
In the Ramayana, the relationship between Lord Ram and his elder sister Shanta is also very deep. Shanta was the daughter of King Dasharatha and Queen Kausalya and was adopted by King Romapada. Ayodhya became prosperous after Shanta’s marriage to Rishyasringa, after which Shri Ram and his brothers were born. Their story reflects the strong family bonds and sacrifices that siblings make for each other.
Reunite Your Broken Relationship on Bhai Dooj
Bhai Dooj is a special occasion where siblings can strengthen their relationship. If you are separated from your brother or sister for any reason or you are angry about something and you are not talking, then give your relationship a chance again with this Bhai Dooj. Below are some tips that can help you rebuild your relationship with your sibling.
Take the initiative – On Bhai Dooj, take the initiative and call or message your brother or sister. Tell them how much you love them, even today. Apologize – Nothing becomes big or small by apologizing. If you are at fault, apologize and try to improve your relationship. Start a conversation with your brother or sister and try to understand them. Try to forget what happened before and come up with a solution. Think back to your childhood and remember the times when you two were together. Don’t let the distance that grew up between you two get in the way of your relationship. Give a Gift – Give your brother or sister a small gift that shows your love and respect.
By adopting these suggestions, you can strengthen the relationship with your brother-sister and make Bhai Dooj a memorable one.