Hema Malini celebrates her 76th birthday today.
“I loved Dharmendra ji. How can I torture them? Even though he lives with his first wife and children, it doesn’t make me jealous. I can’t bother them for such a small thing.
I wanted our love to last. I modeled myself in its colors. This is the reason why our relationship continues to this day. Seeing all this, they also like me very much. After all, that’s love. The more you give, the more you will receive in return.
Hema Malini had said this during an interview. Hema Malini fell in love with superstar Dharmendra and became his second wife at the peak of her career. For this, the dissatisfaction of family members is also justified. However, she stood firm on her bold decision.
This isn’t the only big decision Hema Malini has made in her life. Today, on her 76th birthday, let us know about Hema Malini and her candid decisions
Hema fulfilled the dream that her mother had dreamed of. Hema Malini’s mother Jai Lakshmi wanted to become a classical dancer, but due to the burden of family and marital responsibilities, her dream was not fulfilled. It was for this reason that she decided, even before Hema was born, that whatever work she could not do, her daughter would do it. In the end, that’s what happened. Jai Lakshmi gave birth to her daughter Hema on the occasion of Dussehra. Interestingly, Jai Lakshmi had decided to name her daughter Hema even before her birth.
Hema followed her mother’s advice and started preparing to become a classical dancer at a young age. This is the reason why his childhood did not go like that of normal children.
In an interview, he said: “I started dancing very young. However, I didn’t want to dance all the time. She wanted to play like the other children. Standing by the window, watching people passing by, lounging here and there, listening to the old women’s gossip and spending time with my brothers, I longed to do all this. But she couldn’t do all this because of her strict lifestyle.
To fulfill her mother’s dream, Hema left her studies after class 11 and devoted herself entirely to learning dance. Whatever her mother’s dream was, Hema Malini made it come true by becoming a ‘Dream Girl’.
Hema Malini first saw Dharmendra at a film premiere. Hema was fascinated as soon as she saw it. Hema had said in an interview that she had not seen anyone more beautiful than Dharmendra. The couple was first seen together in the 1970 film Tum Haseen Main Jawaan. After that, they both appeared in many films together.
Hema was first attracted to Dharmendra. She wanted a life partner like Dharmendra, but did not want to marry him. But after spending a lot of time together, they both began to like each other.
When Hema’s family learned about the connection between her and Dharmendra, they became angry. The reason was that Dharmendra was already married. However, Hema and Dharmendra got married somehow.
After her marriage, Hema had to face a lot of criticism. He was also accused of violating the rights of his first wife. Amidst all these taunts, Hema Malini stood firm on her decision and maintained her relationship with Dharmendra well. Their relationship is indissoluble, even today.
Hema and Dharmendra got married on May 2, 1980.
Every director-producer avoids hiring a newcomer in his film. She was afraid whether the audience would like the new actor or not, but Hema Malini took that risk.
In fact, Shahrukh Khan worked in the TV show Fauji at the beginning of his career. Hema really liked Shahrukh’s work in this exhibition. Then he decided to cast Shahrukh in the film ‘Dil Aashna Hai’.
When he first called Shahrukh, the actor thought someone was joking. However, later he came to believe. Hema’s guru mother Indira Devi had also said that even though Shahrukh is a television actor today, he will become a superstar one day. You made a very good decision in selecting him.
The film Satyam Shivam Sundaram is considered one of the best films in the history of cinema. However, Hema rejected the offer of this film, while Raj Kapoor himself went to Hema Malini with the offer of this film. He told Hema, “I know you will refuse, but I still want you to make this film.
When Hema heard about the story and the character, she immediately refused. She didn’t want to play a very bold character on screen. This is the reason why he refused to work in the film. Later this role was played by Zeenat Aman.
In an interview, Hema Malini was asked if filmmakers are afraid of her, why?
Thereupon, Hema said, “Because I do not compromise with my principles.
There is also a story that Hema was cast in a film. When Hema reached the set, the director asked her to remove the pin from her saree so that the photo of the falling pallu could be captured. Hema refused to shoot. He even left the film halfway through.
Now read other stories from Hema Malini’s life…
Despite having less than 5,000 rupees, the fan gave the car to Hema When Hema Malini’s film Sapno Ke Saudagar released, her mother was very happy. She wanted to give her daughter a car. She went to Bhim Singh’s garage with Hema to collect the car. After the release of Sapno Ke Saudagar, Hema had many fans and one of them was Bhim Singh.
After seeing many cars, Hema liked foreign cars, but she was short of five thousand rupees to purchase one. Bhim Singh gave the car to Hema when he had less money. Hema’s mother promised to give five thousand rupees later and took the car home.
Earlier, Hema was going to become Jitendra’s wife, Dharmendra expressed his love in a filmic style. Hema had told in her book Hema Malini: The Authorized Biography that Jitendra and Sanjeev Kumar had proposed to Hema. Both of them loved Hema and wanted to marry her.
In fact, Sanjeev Kumar was at the peak of his career at that time. Jitendra also loved Hema. Hema-Jitendra’s family also wanted both of them to get married. Hema considered Jitendra only as her friend, but due to family pressure, she agreed to get married. The wedding date was also fixed and preparations had also started.
When Dharmendra learned that Hema was getting married, he ended the marriage in a filmic style. After that, Hema listened to her heart and married Dharmendra.
Hema and Dharmendra worked together in the 1975 film Sholay.
20 slaps were given for one scene In 1979, Hema Malini was seen in the film Hum Tere Aashiq with actor Arvind Trivedi (Ramanand Sagar’s Ravana). For one scene in this film, Arvind had to slap Hema. Arvind was so scared that he had to slap Hema 20 times to give her the perfect blow. ———————————— Also read this Bollywood related story..
The relatives said – their daughter was lost: the mother was taunted – she makes the child do bad things
“My loved ones turned out to be the bad guys. When I joined the industry, they started taunting me. Father died a long time ago. Relatives began to speak negatively about the mother. It was said that she made her daughter do bad things for money.
Saying this, actress Geetanjali Mishra broke down in tears. Geetanjali, who has appeared in many TV serials and films, had a very rough start. ..