Diwali is a festival of lights and happiness. This festival gives us a chance to revive and bring light into our lives. Every year on the occasion of Diwali, we decorate our house with colorful lamps and lights. Light up the whole house. But have we ever thought about the importance of this light not only externally, but also in our relationships?
Relationships also sometimes become blurred over time. In such a situation, it is necessary to illuminate them with new lighting. As much as we work hard to clean our house, remove unnecessary things, and create new decorations, do we also work hard to clear the fog in our relationships? There is a festive atmosphere on Diwali only when we clear away our old grudges and make a fresh start.
So today we relationship I’m going to talk about-
What harm can we cause due to misunderstanding in relationships? How can we stop complaints on the occasion of Diwali? How can we bring new light to relationships during Diwali?
Why do relationships deteriorate?
The fog in relationships arises from resentment or old problems. Sometimes we are unable to ignore the little things. Later, these things gradually settle into the mind. In such a situation, we reduce discussions with our loved ones. This increases misunderstandings. Many times we put our ego in between and remain adamant about an old problem. If we don’t correct it in time, the relationship may be broken.
At the same time, in mutual relationships, we often start making decisions based on the advice of a third person. While this should not happen because no third party can better understand the relationship between two people. Besides, the habit of only putting one’s point of view forward in a mutual relationship is also a major reason for spoiling the relationship.
Let us understand in detail the reasons given in the chart.
Money can become the main cause of tension in relationships
There are many major causes of tension in relationships. Lack of confidence can be a major cause. Once trust is broken, it is replaced by insecurity and doubt in the relationship. Furthermore, monetary transactions also emerge as a major cause of relationship breakdown.
Unresolved disputes can also become a cause of tension
Unresolved conflicts also create bitterness and tension in relationships. If conflicts are not resolved in time, their impact increases. Along with this, expecting more or wanting more from someone can cause stress. In addition, external pressures, family or health problems also have a negative impact on the relationship.
Ridicule also causes tension in relationships
Along with this, a negative speaking style, sarcastic behavior or the use of abusive language can harm the other person’s self-esteem. We often have the habit of saying something while making fun of the other person. Even if we don’t intend to humiliate someone, people may still feel uncomfortable.
How to delete old complaints?
Every relationship is special and every complaint may have a different reason. But the solution can only come from mutual dialogue. However, if you want to end the divide, you must take the initiative.
open up
Often we suppress our emotions and don’t talk to the other person. This increases misunderstandings. If something is bothering you, talk about it openly on the occasion of Diwali. Speaking properly will not only resolve grievances but also strengthen the relationship.
apologize and forgive
Whether the mistake is yours or the other person’s, apologizing doesn’t insult anyone. It is very important to take the small things out of the heart in relationships. If you think you made a mistake, apologize openly. If the other person has done something, forgive them with all your heart.
forget old grudges
There are grievances in every relationship. If we get stuck on this, it will be difficult to move forward. Thinking about old things over and over again doesn’t change anything, but only sours the relationship. This Diwali, put an end to these complaints and bring a new freshness in your relationship.
demonstrate understanding and sensitivity
Relationships sometimes test our wisdom and sensitivity. Be wise on this occasion of Diwali. Ignore the little things and handle relationships with a big heart. What was in the past, leave it there.
Opportunity for a fresh start this Diwali
Diwali is not only a festival of cleaning and decorating the house but also an occasion to clean our hearts again. We must leave the involuntary estrangement behind us and move forward.
clarify relationships
When you decorate your home with lights this Diwali, stop for a moment and think: are your relationships also lit up in the same way? If not, it’s time to redecorate those relationships. Meet your loved ones, spend time with them, and openly resolve the issues that have created distance in your relationship.
stay away from negativity
This festival of Diwali also teaches us that we should stay away from negativity. When we have negative feelings towards someone in our mind, we ourselves are drowning in that darkness. This festival gives us an opportunity to fill our minds with positivity.
Diwali Wishes: Light of Love, Affection and Relationships
When you light the lamps in your home on Diwali, also light the lamp of your heart. Bring love and affection in every relationship during this festival. Leave old things behind and give your relationships a chance to live in a new light.
This Diwali, erase old grudges, cleanse hearts and make a fresh start. This will be the real Diwali.
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